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A Love That Will Be Ready

A Love That Will Be Ready

I came across this quote on one of my favorite sites, Swiss Miss and it was too good not to repost here.  As someone who wasted many of my best days, weeks, months and years in "relationships" (and I put that in quotes for a reason) that required me to spend far more of my energy than the other person was willing to exert, this quote hit close to home.  I'm not saying that finding that one person who is ready should negate the need for that person to also tick your other boxes.  But what I am saying is that there are far too many battles that we lose simply because we are on uneven battlefields...let that sink in.  And let this sink in too:

“Someone can be madly in love with you and still not be ready. They can love you in a way you have never been loved and still not join you on the bridge. And whatever their reasons you must leave. Because you never ever have to inspire anyone to meet you on the bridge. You never ever have to convince someone to do the work to be ready. There is more extraordinary love, more love that you have never seen, out here in this wide and wild universe. And there is the love that will be ready.” 
― Nayyirah Waheed

Photo by Sidney Pearce on Unsplash

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